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ONE DAY INTERACTIVE SESSION: LESSONS, LOSSES AND THE WAY FORWARD

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After the ENDSARS Protest, what next? Nigerians protested and demanded for Special Anti Robbery Squad (SARS) to end because of their brutalities. A lot of things happened  within the 14 days Protest. There are Lessons to learn and Losses incurred. What are the Lessons? What are the Losses? What is the Way Forward? Join this conversation taking place on Saturday, 21st of November, 2020 at 7pm. Register for the programme. http://shorturl.at/rKWZ6 Share with more youths to join us.  

SUICIDE OF THE GIRL CHILD

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Click and read the poem  SUICIDE OF THE GIRL CHILD Thank You for reading. Dear friend, Please, I would like you to vote for me. Vote for the poem you just finished reading; I guess you like it (smiles). Online voting in ongoing for final winners of the National Art competition under the theme of SHEROES. Please note, in the poetry section not painting section. When you click the link scroll down the painting section and click next, it will take you to the poetry section scroll down to FINALIST 16 you will find my name, EMERUWA IHUOMA Poetry Title: SUICIDE OF THE GIRL CHILD, Click on the 'vote' button scroll down and click next then click 'submit' Here's the Link for the Online Voting:  https://forms.gle/k5RfCMfGWTgJ2obQ8 Your vote will really count! After voting let me know you have voted for poetry finalist 16 by sending screenshot via WhatsApp number +23465785593 Please, let's do this together! You can as well forward to your friends and family to vote  🙏 🙏 ...

DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS

Hello Dear, You are Welcome! TITLE: DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS Destructive Patterns are self destructive behavior that can damage  children and cause death.   The destructive patterns are:  Anger Depression Isolation Accumulates grief Trauma Negative social condition Self harming Bully Engaging in alcohol and abuse ... and many others   Destructive patterns could be as a result of the following:  Neglect Emotional Abuse Physical Abuse Sexual Abuse   Ways to help; Ø  Teach the child to control his feelings each time he feels that way; he should be calm and don’t say a word. Ø  Teach the child to use positive words such as: I am a good child, I am strong, I am a child of God…. As he keeps confessing daily the patterns will disappear and you will be looking for it but you can’t find it any more. Ø  Instill good morals in the child such as good communication skills and the kind of friends to keep as well as good activities to engage in. Ø  Draft a...

HEALING TOOLS TO HELP PREVENT DEPRESSION / SUICIDE

Note: This May be Applicable To Teenagers And Adults.  People may use substances to deal with these painful symptoms:  *Intrusive thoughts  *Unwanted flashbacks  *Depression  *Isolation  *Aggressiveness  *Hallucinations and flashbacks related to the traumatic experience.  ...but this is not the best way to go about it.  These Ways Can Help you prevent suicide or heal from your pain:  If you or a loved one is contemplating suicide, it is not too late to find relief from your pain.  The following resources are on standby to assist you in overcoming suicidal thoughts:  *You can locate the National Suicidal Lifeline: It is available around the clock, every day of the week. If you are experiencing suicidal thoughts, regardless of the severity or frequency, this resource is able to help.   *Local Authorities, such as police stations or fire stations, are available to help in the event of a suicide attempt. They can als...

EQUIPPING THE MALE AND FEMALE CHILD IS ESSENTIAL

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  Equipping the male and female child is essential. Gone are those days parent equip only the female child. Infact, this is the reason why you see majority of the female children are doing excellently well in firm and industries because the male child was long ago neglected. Can the male child survive without the female child? Or vise versa. I'm sure your answer is 'No,' so why then neglect equipping the male child. .......... Mr Joe was a young man who was abused by 4 different ladies before the age of 12, He said, "If I was informed about sex early I would have safe guided my self." That means the fault wasn't his. What you must let your child know once he is 4years: Note: Do not neglect the days of little beginning. Don't say my child is to young for this. Keep speaking the right words into the child, the child is listening. Tell the child: 📌 Your body belongs to you. Your private part should be covered. [Always play the private part song for your kids...

MONDAYS ARE SPECIAL DAYS YET CHILDREN ARE ABUSED

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                                                      We all know that Mondays are Special days yet many children are Abused on Mondays. Have you ever sat down to think about that? Yes, Monday is the beginning of a working week. It is a day we begin the week going to our various places of work and businesses yet children are molested and rape.  Children/Teenagers are usually abused in the afternoon! I guess you'll be choked about this... but have you ever thought why some persons go for break in the afternoon? Have you ever thought why some persons stay longer during break time? Hmm! that's when it is happening. This information should stick to your brain now. ---------------------------- All you need to do as a parent is to be vigilant: * Inform your teenage girl never to leave the school premises during  ...

Children/Teenagers Sex Rings: The Reality of Sexual Issues In Teens

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         THE REALITY OF        SEXUAL ISSUES IN TEENS To have access to this event, Pre-order Train up a Child: How to Equip a Male Child Against the Destructive World Pattern. Pre-order here EquipaMaleChild                To find out more about this program click here                       SexEduCommunity                                             ABOUT THE MALE CHILD Have you ever wondered how independent your child actually is? Do you think your child is well-equipped with essential life skills to face the world? The society has made it look as if the girl child is only meant to be in the kitchen or do all the house chores. This is not right! Both the male and female child should be equipped with kitchen skills not just ac...

A Lesson On Resilience

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Setting the Child Loose

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SETTING THE CHILD LOOSE Hi Dear! Have you tested your child for depression recently? Children should be tested weekly for depression. An 18 year old student committed suicide due to lack of weekly depression check. DEPRESSION, IDENTITY CRISIS, EASY GIVE UP, REJECTION, ABUSE... ARE SOME OF THE THINGS THAT AFFECTS CHILDREN! Can Children Really Suffer From Depression? Yes. Childhood depression is different from the normal "blues" and everyday emotions that occur as a child develops. Just because a child seems sad doesn't necessarily mean he or she has significant depression. If the sadness becomes persistent, or interferes with normal social activities, interests, schoolwork, or family life, it may indicate that he or she has a depressive illness. Depression has lead so many children to suicide. According to WHO close to 800 000 people die due to suicide everyday. As many as 2 to 3% of children ages 6 to 12, and 6 to 8% of teens may have serious depression and an estimate...

MY THOUGHT JOURNAL

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  This Journal is a guide used to free an abused children  from trauma, depression and disorders as a result  of the abuse/rape. Daily practice of the instructions embedded in this guide will help every abused  child regain their confidence. Sign up to get a copy! Click here  MY THOUGHT JOURNAL You will be redirected to download a copy. For Further Enquiries  CONTACT ME

DIARY OF AN ABUSE BEST PRACTICES

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 Download a free eBook of Diary of Abuse Best Practices Click Here:  Diary of an Abused Best Practices

SOCIAL MEDIA AND THE CHILD

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DOWNLOAD A FREE E-BOOK OF SOCIAL MEDIA AND THE CHILD Click Here:  SOCIAL MEDIA AND THE CHILD   We would like to get a feedback from you after reading the eBook. Click here to fill the  E-BOOK EVALUATION FORM

BROKEN AND SHATTERED: Diary of an Abused Child

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  The knowledge in this book is unquantifiable and it is divided into various topics so that you can understand what the crux of this matter is and gain more insight. As you read through, I would like you to acknowledge that children cry and that they are victims of abuse. I would like you to support them with the care they need to be fulfilled in life. It doesn ’ t matter whose child he/she is. You can support every child you come in contact with. Get a copy here: BROKEN AND SHATTERED: Diary of an Abused Child Download a copy as soon as payment is made. CONTACT ME THE STORY OF PRETTY WHO CRIED FOR YEARS (name not real) This happened in a community in Abuja where a child of four years called Pretty, who as a little and innocent girl, did not know anything and wasn’t taught about her body and private parts. Pretty was a happy girl and every neighbour was fond of her smiles and mellifluous voice. She loved to squiggle from one neighbour's house to the other as she was always left alo...

HOW TO COMMUNICATE SEX EDUCATION GUIDE

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  Get the copy here:  A GUIDE TO COMMUNICATE SEXUALITY TO CHILDREN  click on the link afterwards to download your copy. It is a practical guide that will help you in communicating sexuality to children, teenagers and youths. With this guide, you will position the child for safety for life. You may wish to  Contact me Join Us Here: ICF Global Light Discovery Int'l

HEALING TOOLS FOR AN ABUSED CHILD

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HEALING TOOLS FOR AN ABUSED CHILD   Every day, countless people around the world consider taking their own  lives. The reasons vary from abuse to disease to intolerable pain, etc. We are all familiar with it. During a crisis, some turn to isolation and  self-deprivation. Others look to alcohol and drug use, which actually  raises the risk of depression and addiction, leading to a higher risk of  suicide.  During the overwhelming circumstances, it’s easy for children  to believe no one else has walked where they are, and it’s even easier to  convince themselves that no one else could understand their situation.  That’s why each year a lot of teenagers/youths around the world make  the permanent decision to end their lives. Get the copy here:  Healing Tools for Abuse  click on the link afterwards to download your copy. It is a practical guide that will help you in healing process of abuse. With this guide, you may not need a ther...

SEX EDUCATION MASTER CLASS BUNDLE

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Hi Dear, welcome! This month is going to be your best month ever in 2020; you just have to believe. Just to let you know that our Sex Education Master Class Bundle registration is still on and the training will take place this Saturday, the 8th of August, 2020. Sign up for Sex Education Master Class Bundle It promises to be of great impact. Why you should sign-up! To build a supportive relationship with your child To build emotional resilience To build up a smart child To build up an independent child To build up a child free of abuse To build up an intelligent child To build up a male child that has emotional control and value over the female child To build up a self independent child To build up a child that listens and obey To be informed about the stages to communicate sex To position your child for safety Plus the bonuses in video Click here to  SIGN UP You can as well get a copy of BROKEN AND SHATTERED: Diary of and Abused here, Click to  GET YOUR COPY If yo...

SEX EDUCATION MASTER CLASS BUNDLE

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SIGN UP FOR SEX EDUCATION MASTER CLASS BUNDLE   Hello Dear, Welcome!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        ...