DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS

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TITLE: DESTRUCTIVE PATTERNS

Destructive Patterns are self destructive behavior that can damage  children and cause death.

 

The destructive patterns are: 

Anger

Depression

Isolation

Accumulates grief

Trauma

Negative social condition

Self harming

Bully

Engaging in alcohol and abuse

... and many others

 

Destructive patterns could be as a result of the following: 

Neglect

Emotional Abuse

Physical Abuse

Sexual Abuse

 

Ways to help;

Ø Teach the child to control his feelings each time he feels that way; he should be calm and don’t say a word.

Ø Teach the child to use positive words such as: I am a good child, I am strong, I am a child of God…. As he keeps confessing daily the patterns will disappear and you will be looking for it but you can’t find it any more.

Ø Instill good morals in the child such as good communication skills and the kind of friends to keep as well as good activities to engage in.

Ø Draft a daily routine for your child from the point he steps out of the bed till after his dinner and bedtime.

Ø Get my thought journal for your child and help him to put down his daily thought. That will shift his mindset and build a positive, confident and responsible child.


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